The purpose of this blog is to document my attempt to master conversational (mexican)Spanish in 7 weeks. My entries will fall into about 4 categories. 1)simple updates for friends and family who want to know im alive. 2)commentary about the mexican culture 3)pictures, phrases, or a quick line or two if I feel as though im neglecting to post an appropriate amount. and 4)long posts regarding thoughts feelings and emotions that arise while i am on this mission.
Friday, April 29, 2011
Went to Mexican movie theater for 1st time since 2000.
Thursday, April 28, 2011
my first mexican haircut....
Forget about Jamba Juice.....
Just over 1 month left and I created a challenge for myself.....
In other news, my Spanish is continuing to improve, my english speaking is limited to swearing and night time when Im too tired to think of the words. I weighed in t 81.5 kilos today, which is a little more than 179.6 pounds. I haven´t been under 180 since before college. Im eating really well here. Raw foods, also taking vitamins and supplements (acai, fish oil, spirulina). I haven´t been exercising as much as I am used to and the half marathon on June 5 is going to teach me a lesson, but the walking that I do and city exploration has provided me with a well balanced body and im pleased with how ive be keeping in shape.
Here is a picture of my two cousins that Im living with here....
my family has been so good to me. im grateful everyday. be well everyone. hasta la proxima!
Wednesday, April 27, 2011
Tuesday, April 26, 2011
if you are getting this by email....
Monday, April 25, 2011
Going out to celebrate...
Thank god I dont drink anymore! 217 days :)
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City is alive again....
Pitbull on 28 may. Get some!
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Sunday, April 24, 2011
April 25
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I was the only one with....
Here is a picture of my newest friend in mexico!
Saturday, April 23, 2011
10th day update
Today was the real first strong moment homesickness, but it isnt a coincidence that the two people that dropped me off at the airport were the same two that made me feel much better today. I can only hope that other people have that kind of support in their life. I'm very grateful.
It was a beautiful day in Mexico city and the scale said I weigh 84 kilos. (it's so much more exciting using a measurement system in which you are unsure of the conversions)
Best wishes to all and thanks for your love and support today, Dad and Alicia.
Hasta la proxima...
Everyone back home has an iPad or iPhone 4.....
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Friday, April 22, 2011
Thursday, April 21, 2011
Learning Language and culture without structure
Overwhelmed, but constantly grateful. It feels wonderful.
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Stayin' Alive
Wednesday, April 20, 2011
Pardon the delays....
Things are going really well. I had my first dream that was involved English and Spanish. When I have my first dream in Spanish (if ever) that will be a huge milestone. Im Wah beyond my original hurdle of being embarrassed to make mistakes and since I got over that I've been improving at a much faster rate. Even as I write this I'm thinking of Spanish phrasing and sentence structure and I have to reread my English. = good sign.
My family has been so helpful and very generous with everything. I'm so grateful to have this opportunity. There has been one day that I felt homesick to the point of watery eyes but it was more because when I reflect on my father's emigration I can't help but feel overcome with gratitude and the desire to hug and kiss him and say thank you for your sacrifices. More to come. Hopefully Internet gets fixed soon. Know that I'm well and im safe (for now).
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Friday, April 15, 2011
First Run
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Thursday, April 14, 2011
night night
Good night peeps. Day 1 was great. I speak spanish better today than yesterday. I explored the neighborhood. Learned important words like apuesta while I played some low stakes roulette at the casino that is a 4 minute walk. Don't worry loved ones. Part of understanding why some behaviors become irreversibly compulsive is to do similar vices and use a strong cbt model for assessing threat, and course of action.
Tomorrow I work at 7.
by the way. My dad responded to my previous post, to me directly. And it was the best thing anyone has ever written to me. I am overwhelmed with appreciation for all the sacrifices of our previous generations.
Mexico 4.14.2011
Just like when I was here in December, the speaking spanish only here is exhausting, but that only last for a couple of days and then its a lot easier to really learn and pick up the subtleties. Im so glad that i know that the exhaustion of total spanish subsides after a couple of days or else i would be pretty bummed about the prospects of me learning spanish well.
Feeling grateful and content. its a nice way to feel.
Wednesday, April 13, 2011
Landed
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Language change....
P.s. I love you dad. I can barely go to another country for 2 months, you went to a new country for your family. I love you and appreciate what you did for us. (three cheers for mr. Vazquez!)
Airport...
April 13..."Wow that's pretty cool, I can't hardly wait"
So we have indeed arrived at our final blog post from the comfort of my particularly uncomfortable room. It is currently 4:00 (I changed my iphone over to 24 hour time so I'm cool like that and don't have to write A.M. or P.M. I hate that it makes so much sense to use 'Military Time" but then you can't lie or mislead through ambiguous answers like, wife: "what time did you get home yesterday, dear?". Husband: (with confidence and future plausible deniability): "4, I was exhausted and went right to bed, maybe I'm coming down with something"
You catch what I'm saying.
So back to the fact that I'm scheduled for a flight in less than 8 hours.
Truth be told, it has been a strange series of up and down emotional reactions to the anticipation of this trip for the past couple of weeks. (past or passed? well, by this time tomorrow no one will care if speak english) They will only care about things like:
1---what kind of car I drive in the U.S?
and 2---why do I want to get a sun tan, tans make you look darker?
and 3----"you want to buy some acapulco gold?"
and 4---- "why aren't you wearing a wool jacket? its almost below 80 degrees F."
and 5-----"why are you only eating foods that are supposed to make you feel alive and healthy?"
and 6-----"why the F&*@$ do you want to find a store for pinatas...you racist half mexican, half non-mexican!".
I've already prepared my answers to each of those inevitable questions and many of their close relative variations.
To the above for example,:
1-----I drive a lot of brand new sports cars, I can't even name them all. Of course all americans are rich and of course its fun to talk about cars, and of course I like having this conversation and of course this city smells wonderful.
2-----because i'm hot when i'm bronzed and, the entire U.S. (except for in Mississippi, and my grammar school, where the nuns called me the colored boy) people are down with the brown and vanity is more important than the almost completely dead last generation of public racists.
3-----Maybe yesterday I would have. Come back then. But don't forget, I'm checking out of my hotel last wednesday. And me police. And me no have money. And please shower before you solicit me to buy your acapulco gold that was grown in colombia (oh snap).
4-----Because I do things that make sense, especially when it involves clothing that relates to the weather (Fs not Cs) by not more than 10 degrees of common sense and comfort. And no, I'm sorry, but I, along with everyone trying to show off an out of season (pun intended) fashion item aren't noticing you. In fact you probably haven't been noticed in weeks even though you think you stand out.
5-----Because I see that nice wool coat that the other a-hold has on even though its too hot? Well, I gave that to good will when I lost 70 pounds and realized i don't care if its rude to say 'no' to someone offering you food if you are visiting them. or if its a holiday, or if they want to make you fat and then tell you that you should lose weight.
6-----I like pinatas. but yes, I'm racist, but only toward the race of people wearing winter coats in scorching temperatures. So, where can I but pinatas?
Ok, so i won't answer like that (mainly because I don't know how to translate that yet). but soon.
I have to finish packing and enjoy pasteurized and homogenized milk while i still can, so I'll leave you with a photo that I need a lot of help understanding:
I wanted to be responsible and get a collection of items that some internet sites said were crucial for survival in Mexico. There catch phrase was something like, "if you want to fit in but still have the special luxuries of a real 1st world country, you must pack this when you travel to mexico."
I don't know which is which. Do i fit in with the toilet paper, purell, and soap, or will I be the 1 in 2000 that has a clean bum, bacterialess hands, and soap to carry around and look cool. ;)
well, the next post will be from the 'road'.
sorry about this post- it is witless, long, boring, and self-deprecating and racist toward my own culture. (sounds like the majority of mexican tv. Sorry, we should use something a little less derogatory than "Mexican") (that jokes from the office btw)
Monday, April 11, 2011
1 more day to get through.....
The same beautiful smile that takes the nerves out of this little lion man.
Goodnight
Sunday, April 10, 2011
Most people don't know this.....
(From a list of Mexican Holidays...).
Heroica Defensa de Veracruz
Heroic Defense of Veracruz – Commemorates the defense against the United States occupation of Veracruz in 1914.
Thursday, 21 April 2011
And in case people wanted to know why I wanted to make sure I was in Mexico for May 5th......
(I feel like I'm going to make fun of Americans(myself included) from afar, this year.....)
Cinco de Mayo
Fifth of May – Celebrates the victory of the Mexican Army, led by Gral. Ignacio Zaragoza against French forces in the city of Puebla, on May 5, 1862. U.S. “celebration” of this Mexican historical event is largely a result of promotions in the US by liquor, beer, and bars/taverns/clubs/restaurants since the 1980s. For many years Cinco de Mayo celebrations in the US promoted Cinco de Mayo as Mexican Independence Day which is actually September 16. Although Mexican citizens feel very proud of the meaning of Cinco de Mayo, it is not a national holiday in Mexico,
Saturday, April 9, 2011
4 Days left and i've settled on a look that will force would be muggers or conmen to think twice about who this 'mark' is....
| option 1 - too experimental. Denied |
| I shall exit the plane in Mexico City, as so. |
So my only possible nemesis can be a robber. Robbers are indeed the worst. The ability to threaten force against someone you do not know in order to get something that you aren't even sure they have takes a lot of, a)desperation b)courage/bravado/foolish sense of power or c) the worst combination of a and b.
So, After I pass through customs, looking over my shades, surely, in order to not arouse unneeded suspicion from any Mexican Customs Enforcement. Then I have that little time between being slightly vulnerable to snatch and grab, or a straight up stick up, and the time that my cousins find me after I pass through the big glass window doors that give you your first true smell of a Giant City that has only slightly tempered its 20 year flatulence-like pollution.
I don't mean to scare anyone. I'm not afraid. I know how 'act' (i taught myself when i used to drink) how to be the person that seems just a little too NUTS to go near, no matter what valuables he has in his pockets. I always throw in some loud rapping with plenty of english swears that i can sort of get away with even though 95 percent of the mexicans at the airport understand me (along with all the other passengers who just flew in from the states).
Its all good. I just wanted to have something interesting written here in case something does happen to me....
Perhaps....
Friday, April 8, 2011
Wacky Mustache Gone....
5 days until Mexico...
Saturday, April 2, 2011
Need Advice! Please help or ask a friend who might know.....
So admittedly I'm probably a little lazy in that I could most likely find and purchase the phone and service right now on the internet. But in terms of filtering through the scams, the misleading ads, and strong distrust I have developed for mexican tourism commerce, I am reaching out to others who have traveled to other countries for more than a week or two, and acquired a cell phone.
I'll tell you what I have, what I want, and what i would settle for:
WHAT I HAVE-----So I have an IPhone4 with ATT service. I will be staying with family that has a wi-fi connection I can use. (side note, in December I was in Mexico for a couple of weeks and took my phone off of airplane mode twice, for a total of ten minutes, didn't make any calls and sent four texts, unfortunately I received about 50 texts that were in queue and consequently i payed a 60 dollars in extra charges that month on my phone bill.)
I also have an Iphone3 that is not connected to any phone service but can still use wifi, so its more or less an ipod touch.
i also have 2 functioning non-smartphones that i was told could be used elsewhere if i buy a sim card from the country i'm in....again, don't know much about it, and a little frustrated to do the research so i'm hoping for a lucky break that someone out there has the answer.
WHAT I WANT----- Ideally I would have a smartphone (my iphone4 would be just fine, mind you) that can make and receive local (mexico) calls as well as receive international calls. And I could use data on the phone to send emails, look up maps, etc. (like i said, this is ideal, and if i could pay a hundred dollars and have this ability for even one month while there, I would. unfortunately if I were to go to mexico, and use my iphone in the exact manner I use it here, my overage would be in the tens of thousands. This might seem like a lazy exaggeration, but it is not.)
WHAT I WOULD SETTLE FOR- i'm bringing both of my iphones, and one of my non smart phones and i'lll settle for being able to get the most from Skype while connected to wifi and getting a sim card for the two months so that i can use the non smart phone for local(mexico city) calls.
Any input about getting sim cards in mexico (or other countries excluding u.s. and canada) and or if they have 'burners' in other countries. And the jackpot would be if you or someone you know travelled to Mexico and did something in order to have a phone to use for local, international, and data services and the bill was in the tens of thousands of dollars (or pennies for that matter).
Any help, would be excellent. Skype users, any tutorial on buying a number/plan before i leave would be great. Their website and app does not provide clear information for me. It might be clear, but i simply don't understand what it all means :)
thanks in advance. You can email me at chrisjvazquez@gmail.com or leave a comment or send a smoke signal. I hope somebody reads this :)
Friday, April 1, 2011
"Black and white picture....
12 days, I'm out
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iPhone apps for traveling
Suggestions For What I SHOULD NOT miss out on seeing in D.F...
So I'm asking for opinions from people about what I should see in Mexico City. Whether you've been there or know someone who has, let me know if you have any suggestions for what to so. I'm hoping to keep it to Mexico City Limits but if there is something I just must see that is a day trip away, please share.
Thanks,
CJV
Grandmotherly Advice
She said it is very important that when I'm offered food while staying with family, I am obligated to eat it out politeness. Now I'm all about polite but considering I weighed 262 pounds last august and now I'm still morbidly obese (according to the wii fit board) even though I weigh a 190 now. I told her because of 'cultural differences' I am obligated to not only refuse most of the food offered, but that the three kings came to me in my dreams a told me to get them to eat healthier (I felt a little guilty because I know the three kings are rockstars for 'my' culture, but my grandmother was impressed with Divine appointment as nutritionist while I'm there).
Point of the story:
If you still have grandparents around, be good to them,even if it means a teeny tiny little white lie. (yes yes, I know, a brown lie)
Some helpful advice from our friends at the U.S. DEPARTMENT OF STATE Bureau of Consular Affairs .....
| (then again, if I showed the DTOs this picture they might not believe it's me anymore, thankfully) |
this is just a snippet to get excited about being in a constant fight or flight response. at least it will be easy to get my running completed there. I'll be fine though, I can always pull the "I used to be a temporary employee of the united states government and i helped count people, so don't hurt me." That'll show 'em!)
It is imperative that U.S. citizens understand the risks involved in travel to Mexico, how best to avoid dangerous situations, and who to contact if one becomes a victim of crime or violence. Common-sense precautions such as visiting only legitimate business and tourist areas during daylight hours, and avoiding areas where criminal activity might occur, can help ensure that travel to Mexico is safe and enjoyable. U.S. citizen victims of crime in Mexico are urged to contact the consular section of the nearest U.S. Consulate or Embassy for advice and assistance....the Mexican government has engaged in an extensive effort to combat drug-trafficking organizations (DTOs). Mexican DTOs, meanwhile, have been engaged in a vicious struggle with each other for control of trafficking routes. In order to prevent and combat violence, the government of Mexico has deployed military troops and federal police throughout the country. U.S. citizens should expect to encounter military and other law enforcement checkpoints when traveling in Mexico and are urged to cooperate fully. DTOs have erected unauthorized checkpoints, and killed motorists who have not stopped at them. In confrontations with the Mexican army and police, DTOs have employed automatic weapons and grenades. In some cases, assailants have worn full or partial police or military uniforms and have used vehicles that resemble police vehicles. According to published reports, 22,700 people have been killed in narcotics-related violence since 2006. The great majority of those killed have been members of DTOs. However, innocent bystanders have been killed in shootouts between DTOs and Mexican law enforcement or between rival DTOs.
Recent violent attacks and persistent security concerns have prompted the U.S. Embassy to urge U.S. citizens to defer unnecessary travel to Michoacán and Tamaulipas, to parts of Chihuahua, Sinaloa, Durango, and Coahuila and to advise U.S. citizens residing or traveling in those areas to exercise extreme caution.
Email Post Worked.....
Ok here is the email post test...
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Just setting up this blogging thingy
I don't really know what I'll focus on in terms of what this blog says about me. Although I'd like to believe that a lot of people will actually read this, I am content knowing that at the very least... I will have my spring/summer of 2011 chronicled electronically for me and well, hopefully someone else, to read in the future.
This is a unique period of time, not just because I am 29 years old, and without a job and 'planning' on returning to grad school in 2012. But there are a lot of reasons that this is an interesting period of my life, and who knows, I might just share some of it with you through this blog.
Anyhow, - blog set up CHECK
and hopefully my trial email post will work minutes after this is posted.
Thanks for being here, whether you love me, hate me, or haven't quite decided who I am to you yet, Your valuable time, although I'm sure it could be better spent else where, is appreciated and feel free to comment on any of the posts. Anonymously or not, nice or not.
-CJV